You've been crushing on that girl, but you don't know how to get her attention.Don't fear!There are some things you can do to make it more likely that you'll get her attention.You'll be attracting a girl in no time if you build your confidence, learn what to say to her, and act around her.
Step 1: You can build your confidence.
One of the qualities girls find attractive is confidence.Confidence doesn't equal arrogance, so there's a fine line that you need to walk.It's not something that you're born with, you can build your confidence.You have to fake confidence until you actually feel confident.Even if you don't feel it, you can still do confident things.Work your way up if you start small.If you're shy, talk to someone you don't know.Work your way up to talking to that cute girl.You can trick yourself into being confident by using confident body postures.Stand with your legs crossed and your hands on your hips.It comes across as being not confident if you cross your arms across your chest.There is chew gum.It's weird that chewing gum can make your breath smell nice, but it can also reduce your stress.Before you meet the girl, pop a stick of gum in your mouth.
Step 2: Good hygiene is practiced.
The definition of hygiene depends on where you are.You'll be more likely to attract a girl if you have higher or lower standards of hygiene.If you lived in rural Alaska, you would most likely attract a girl who was less clean than Los Angeles.At least once a week.It's a good idea to clean yourself at least occasionally.There is research showing that women find men's sweat attractive, but you don't want to overwhelm her with your sweat.You should keep your clothes clean.A little sweat and a little scent isn't bad, but you want your clothes to be at least moderately clean.
Step 3: Make sure your teeth are clean.
White teeth are a sign of attractiveness.A girl is more likely to be attracted to clean, white, healthy teeth if you're brushing them twice a day, at least, and flossing regularly.White teeth are one of the first things women will notice, so it's important that you take good care of them.You want your breath to smell good and you should brush your tongue at the back of your mouth.
Step 4: You can use your clothes to improve.
Clothes can be used as an indicator of attractiveness and confidence.It really depends on where you are in terms of your main wardrobe, it's going to be very different in rural Alaska than it is in Los Angeles.There are some basic things to keep in mind.If you're wearing jeans or trousers, make sure they fit you.It is possible to enhance your body with clothes that fit.Too-tight clothing makes you look sloppy, while baggy clothing hides your body.Purchase nice shoes.A good pair of shoes can make you look put together, which is something a girl will register whether she does it subconsciously or not.Pick colors that match your skin tone, eye color, and facial features.If you have a pair of green eyes, wear a sweater that makes them pop.If you want to attract, wear red and black.You appear more powerful because of the red and black colors.
Step 5: Don't get overwhelmed by scent.
If you live in a place that has a lot of body spray and colognes, there's nothing wrong with a little scent.You want to make sure that you don't overwhelm the girl you're trying to attract.Not covering up your scent is something you may want to consider.Women like to look at a man's sweat.Make sure that you don't make anyone uncomfortable with your body odor.You have to strike a good balance.If you sweats a lot, make sure you wash frequently and change your shirts.If you don't go too far, body spray and Cologne can add a nice accent to your appearance.It's a good idea to mist your ears, face, and chest.It's important to make sure that your body spray mingles with your natural scent.
Step 6: Find your passion.
People are attracted to people who know who they are, have passion for something, and are confident.Passion about things can translate into passion for another person, which is an attractive quality.It gives you something to talk about if you have things that you're passionate about.Nerds are big because they aren't afraid to be passionate about what they like.Take the time to figure out what you like.It means giving a lot of different things a try.Few people can make a flan on the first try, so don't be afraid to be good at something when you first start out.Being able to make mistakes without affecting your equilibrium is an attractive quality.
Step 7: Try new things.
This will help you push the limits of your comfort zone, which will make you more confident in handling the things life pushes at you.You're more likely to be able to talk to a girl if you want to.Being game for trying things out can attract a girl.You can take a class.If you want to know where girls are, they take dance or cooking classes.The ladies want a man who can dance or cook.It shows that you aren't worried about what people think about you.You will have fun talking about your experiences with new people.Being a good speaker, telling interesting stories, and having a life can all attract a girl.
Step 8: Listen to the art of listening.
Listening is a lost art.People are so busy that they don't really listen.If you care about what other people say, you will show that you're a good partner.If someone is talking to you, make sure you pay attention to them.Don't check your phone, make eye contact.It will look like you're making eye contact, without actually doing it, if you look over one of their shoulders, or at their forehead.Listen to everyone, even girls you don't like.This shows you respect people, that you think all people are important, and you're not just listening to someone because you want to get into her pants.A girl doesn't want to feel like you're only paying attention to her because you want sex with her, unless she's only looking for a one-night stand.
Step 9: Don't treat people badly.
There are all people.The clerk should be thanked when you're at the store.tip the waiter or waitress wellLook at people in the eye and make them feel like you have seen them.This doesn't mean that you have to push over.You have the right to call someone out if they insult you.Helping carry groceries is one way to treat people well.It means giving rides to your friends if they can't afford a car.The girls will notice if you treat people well.
Step 10: You should approach her with respect.
It's important to approach a girl with the realization that she is a human being and thus is worthy of respect.Girls don't deserve respect, so you will stand out from the crowd.Make sure you have respect for yourself as well.This is about confidence.Don't base your happiness on whether a girl is interested in you or not.You make it seem like you're desperate.If she doesn't seem interested, back off.You should treat people well when you're around her.Don't tell a rape joke, call other guys "pussies" or use words like "that bitch" to talk about your ex-girlfriend.You'll be seen as immature and disrespectful.A lot of guys confuse being confident with being arrogant and awful.They say that women only want bad guys.This type of guy has a lot of confidence.The confidence is more important than the behavior that girls are attracted to.
Step 11: Ask her questions about herself.
Make it seem like you're interested in what she has to say.Follow up with another question about what she said, instead of jumping right in with something about yourself.Girls like to think that people are interested in them.When she tells you she's working as a barista, you can ask her how she likes it, what her least favorite part is, and so on.Make sure you listen to what she has to say.It will look like you're interrogating her without caring about the answers if you just formulate your next question.Get too personal quickly.If you've only just met the girl, don't ask about her relationship with her family or her dark secrets, even if it's a joke.There will be time for that if the two of you end up dating.
Step 12: It's a good idea to be playful.
It's a good idea to make your interactions fun because you don't have to have a huge grin.She'll remember that it was fun to be around you and thatflirting is good for that.It's better to have a half-smile instead of a big open smile.This is more attractive to girls than full-on grinning.Make her laugh.There are funny stories to be told.You come off as human in real ones.It shows that you can laugh.You could tell her about the time you tried to scare your dad when he was coming out of the gym locker room, only to frighten a random person.Not everyone has the same humor.Make sure you gauge your reaction.Is she laughing politely or hard at what you're saying?Racist or sexist jokes should be avoided.
Step 13: You should flirt with a girl.
It's a great way to create a fun, light atmosphere and flirting can be a bit hit or miss.It can get charged and leave her wanting more.You have to remember that every girl is different in what she likes and dislikes.Remove the tea from her.Don't be mean about what you say, poke fun at her.Tell her that you can out-dance her.Pretend that you are a better dancer if she is.Eye contact is very important in flirting.While you're in conversation, keep an eye on the girl that you are interested in.The two of you will have a real charge of energy.If she needs some space, let her in.