There are ways to make yourself more interesting to the opposite sex, even though you can't force anyone to like you.With a little effort on your part, plus a good dose of self-belief and willingness to go out on a limb, you may find yourself attracting the girl of your dreams.Go and get her with your positive attitude and attentive demeanor.
Step 1: Good grooming practices can be developed.
It is important to spend time on your looks.Make sure that you dress well.You can have a neat, clean cut by taking the time to comb your hair.It will show the girl that you care about her, and that she is special to you.You might make her think that you don't value her opinion enough if you go out in the same dirty clothes you wore yesterday.It's a good idea to wear a little cologne.If it's too much, it will be overpowering.You want her to pay attention to you, not the scent around you.
Step 2: There's a smile.
When you are just getting to know someone, a smile can calm you down.It says you are having fun.A good smile can make you seem more successful.Being genuine is the key to smiling.When people are having fun and happy, it is the eyes that show their emotion to others.Smiling too quickly can look contrived.Pull the corners of your mouth back when you smile.
Step 3: Stay active.
It's not necessary to be ripped to keep your body in good shape.If a man takes care of himself, women will find him attractive.It will help you to be more confident.Get your rest as well.The dark circles under your eyes make you unattractive to women.
Step 4: You can improve your life.
Don't worry about what you can say or how you dress, it's up to you.What you can do to improve yourself is what you should focus on.Once you start going after the other things you want to achieve in life, aside from picking up women, you will start to notice women can sense your drive and ambition and will be drawn to it.Success is more than just being wealthy.Maybe you want to learn more, sing in a band or climb a mountain.The kind of guy that will have more success attracting women is the kind who goes after these dreams.
Step 5: Be confident.
You should fake it until you make it.Stand up straight and keep your hands out of your pockets.She can easily hear you if you speak clearly and project your voice.Girls admire confidence, but don't gloat so much.Relax.Men that are relaxed are more attractive.
Step 6: You can approach her from the side or the front.
She should be able to see you coming.It can set off a woman's protective instinct when you approach from behind.She won't feel alarmed if she approaches from the front.It's important to make them count since most people decide if they like someone in the first 30 seconds.You may have a hard time making a good impression if you approach her in a way that is uncomfortable for her.
Step 7: Get rid of a conversation.
It's something you're going to have to do to make a girl interested in you, but talking to girls can take guts.Power through the awkwardness.The more you try to approach women, the better you will be.Pick-up lines should not be used.She might have heard it before.Say hello."Hello" can be used to be more original.Introduce yourself.Shake her hand as well.If she is talking with a group of friends while you are at school, move nearby so you can hear the conversation.Then ask a question about the conversation.It doesn't matter what they're saying.If she says "It was such a good movie," just ask "what movie?"She is likely to give you a few moments and instead of hitting on her, you are just part of her conversation.
Step 8: The opener should be simple.
Don't start a conversation about the weather with a compliment.You should start a conversation like you're talking to someone you already know.Tell her a funny anecdote.It is possible to make one ahead of time.She will enjoy your company if you can make her laugh.An indirect opener can be used.While staying under the radar, an indirect opener can let you start a conversation.Say, "What is a good place to get a drink around here?"You can work up a conversation if she suggests something.You can ask her to go to the place she suggested after talking with her.There are lots of opportunities to talk to a girl if you're younger."Don't we have a class together?" is an example.You can say you are pretty sure you've met before, even if you don't.Ask her name and keep the conversation going.It is a good idea to try a situational opener.You might start a conversation by pointing out something around you.If there is music playing, you can ask "Do you know who sings this song?"Before you know it, you're talking about all sorts of topics, whether she knows it or not, because you can comment on how good or bad the song is.
Step 9: Don't be artificial.
Don't try to memorize pickup lines or work from a script.It will make it hard to have a good conversation.Don't be afraid to fail.It is the only way to get better at talking to women.Once you have a little success, you will begin to build more confidence and find that approaching girls is not as hard as you thought.
Step 10: Listen to what she is saying.
Making comments about what she is saying is a good way to converse with her.If you are interested, you should always go the extra mile to keep the conversation going.Asking open-ended questions that require more than a yes or no answer will keep her talking and let you know more about her.Instead of asking if she likes music, ask who her favorite musicians are."That's really fascinating, tell me more about that" is a good way to keep the conversation going.Give her your full attention.Don't look at other girls, the room, or even your cell phone.Positive noises, like "uh huh" or "right", will prevent you from seeming cold and encourage her to keep talking.
Step 11: You can build your value.
If she keeps hearing more reasons to talk to you, it doesn't matter what you say.You can be funny, or she can see that you are smart, successful or romantic.She will be anxious to keep you around and learn more about you if you can keep showing her you have positive qualities.
Step 12: Act vulnerable
Maybe it worked for you in the past, because you might be a total tough guy.A girl needs to see that there is more to a guy than meets the eye.If you don't think you have a soft side, you need to show it to her.When you tried to do the right thing but failed, talk about that.She will feel like she is getting to know the real you if you tell her a story about yourself.Don't let it be an open book.It's good to open up, but know when to shut it down.You don't want to bring a negative tone to the conversation, or talk too much about your weaknesses.
Step 13: You should be passionate.
Let her know what you really care about by talking about it.A man that is driven, has a purpose, and knows what he wants from life is more likely to be attractive to women.You can talk about where you've been and what you want to do there.How much do you enjoy doing what you do?You can be very passionate about many things.Whatever it is, bring it up.
Step 14: Show her that she matters.
A person feels good when they are the center of attention.Try to compliment her, notice her laugh, or something she has done that has impressed you.She can be given a nickname.It is possible to ease the tension and build a connection with something fun and playful.You can call her "muffin" or "blue" if you notice that she always eats a muffin for breakfast.When talking to her, keep eye contact.She can be reassured that she is the center of your attention and that you are actually listening.
Step 15: Be a man.
It's one of the biggest mistakes a man can make.Modern men have been trained to be less threatening in order to come off as less manly.To be seen as an alpha male, you don't need to act macho.Keep your eyes open.Don't look at the floor.This can show a lack of confidence.It is more likely to appeal to a woman if you keep your chin up.Make sure your intentions are clear.You don't need to say, "I want you."If you want to show you find her attractive, say that she is "good-looking," "stunning," or something along those lines.She knows what you are looking for if you do this early in the conversation.Touch her.If you want to touch her gently, put your hand on her back.If you let her know your intentions, you don't want to make moves that are too aggressive.She should be judged on her reactions.Don't push it if she seems uncomfortable.
Step 16: Be positive.
Have the same enthusiasm that she has.It's okay that there is slightly more energy.Be positive even if she rejects you.If she doesn't come around to seeing things your way, just let it go.It will impress her if you show that you are capable of handling her decision and still be happy.
Step 17: Play hard to get what you want.
There is uncertainty about your interest in her.When they don't know how much a man likes her, women tend to think about him more.She will not ask about your feelings if you tell her that you think she is the most amazing woman in the world.She will have trouble getting your encounter out of her head if you let her know you're interested.Be active.Tell her you want to take her out, but you can't because you're busy.You seem important and in demand because of this.You have an interesting life.She will have to work to win you.You are something to get when she finds herself in a relationship with another person.
Step 18: Tell her to leave with you.
"Let's get out of here," is a line from Ryan Gosling.This statement infers that you are already together.If she agrees to leave with you, you know she's very attracted to you.
Step 19: You can read her body language.
You have her interest if a woman is facing you most of the time.She is most likely looking at other options if she is turning her head often to check out the rest of the room.A woman's body facing a room full of people is an unconscious way of appearing available, whereas a woman that is facing you is focused on you.
Step 20: Keep an eye on the area between your bodies.
She is creating a barrier if she is holding her purse in between you.She might not even know that she is doing it, but that doesn't mean you should not pay attention.It could be that she is not quite sure about you.It might be a sign that isn't turned on.There is a good chance that she is doing it deliberately.You shouldn't be the one who is moving closer.
Step 21: Don't be afraid to listen for secrets.
She won't be sharing an embarrassing story from her past if she has no interest in you.If she is opening up at all, you're doing something right because she isn't sharing anything too deep or personal.
Step 22: When she touches you, notice.
A girl won't put her hands on you if she's not into you.It could be a good sign that she has some interest if she does.Touch her back in a similar way.