An open relationship isn't exclusive.Both partners can become romantically involved with other people.It is difficult to talk about it in a relationship.It is difficult to maintain.If done correctly, it can be a positive experience since it is not everyone's cup of tea.
Step 1: Why do you want an open relationship?
Are you no longer happy with your partner?Do you want to try it?Do you think it will make your relationship better?Before discussing the topic with your partner, you should consider these important considerations.Before discussing the topic with your partner, make sure your motives are strong.The topic is taboo for a lot of people.If your partner has mentioned it in the past, don't assume they will accept it.Do you think it's worth pursuing?It's possible that bringing up the topic with your partner will cause a conflict.You may be no longer happy in the relationship.It's important to make sure you pursue it because you could lose your partner.
Step 2: An open relationship doesn't mean your love for your partner should decrease.
Many think that a successful open relationship requires a deeper bond between partners.You should consider whether or not an open relationship is worth it if you can't accept this fact.It's not a good idea to enter an open relationship if you're looking for a way out of a relationship.You may be drawn to love other partners if you have an even deeper connection with your partner.Will you be able to maintain your love for your partner while still seeing other people?
Step 3: Discuss the topic at the right time.
Make sure you both have at least an hour or two to discuss the topic.You will need plenty of time to discuss the nuances of the relationship and whether or not it is something you and your partner want to pursue.Cell phones and computers can distract you from starting the conversation.Make sure your partner knows that the time to talk is serious.You don't want your partner to think you're crazy.
Step 4: Discuss the topic of an open relationship with your partner.
Before moving any further, try to gauge their opinion.Don't push the topic if he/she reacts badly.It's better to stop talking about it.It's important to say that there is nothing wrong with your current relationship but that you want to try something else.It is important to pay close attention to your partner's body language.
Step 5: Introduce what an open relationship is and why you want it for the relationship if your partner seems to like it.
To express that you are not trying to devalue your partner's role in the relationship, be open and honest with your motives.Explain that this type of relationship is giving and not selfish.It is not dependent.The open relationship can be on a trial period.If either partner feels uncomfortable with the situation, it is okay to stop it.
Step 6: Discuss the limits and goals of the open relationship.
You should give your partner an outline of what you hope to gain from the relationship and where the limits should be.Your partner should tell you what the limits should be.Come to a compromise based on this information.Discuss with your partner if you should ask permission before getting involved with someone else.Some people like to have the right to "veto".Discuss if you will be told about the other partner's activities.Do you want to know if your mate has been involved with someone else?Would you rather not know?
Step 7: Rules about how far each partner can go.
You can ask your partner to only be involved with someone of a particular gender, or you can decide to do anything with anyone else.When a couple is separated by a long distance, the relationship becomes open.
Step 8: Talk about protecting yourself.
If you get a sexually transmitted disease, it will affect both of you, so it's important to talk about it.Will each partner confirm that the person is free of STDs?Do you want to see the medical papers?When engaging in all sexual activity will each partner use protection?
Step 9: Discuss if you want to let your friends and family know about the new aspect of your relationship.
An open relationship is not accepted by many.If you feel uncomfortable telling your friends and family about the open relationship, you can.
Step 10: Communication will be the key to making the relationship successful.
Agree that honesty is the best policy.If you and your partner are lying to each other, suspicion and paranoia will grow.Make sure that your partner knows that they can stop the relationship at any time.