It's important to demonstrate an attractive personality in order to make friends and have lasting relationships.To have an attractive personality, cultivate the ability to communicate naturally, develop a sense of humor, and build a confident disposition.The ability to inspire and fascinate others will make others more drawn to you.
Step 1: Listen to other people.
Today's society ignores listening as a trait.Pay attention to what the other person is saying instead of responding to a text, opening an email or thinking about a meal.Show them you're interested by asking questions or commenting on the story.
Step 2: Speak honestly.
No one likes to be deceived.Let people know the truth.If you can't commit to something, it's better to be honest and let them know.You should tell the truth when people ask for your opinion.Honest and rude opinions are different.If you don't like your friend's shirt and they ask you about it, reply with, "I really like you in blue instead."
Step 3: Know what and how.
How you speak is more important than what you say.If you try to give someone a genuine compliment, but they think you say it with sarcasm, it won't mean anything.You should be aware of the way you speak.You can change how you speak if you notice that people take things you say the wrong way.Make your friends aware of the way you are coming across.
Step 4: Help other people communicate.
A bunch of people are having a good time.It can be a simple gathering at the park or a fancy dinner party.It shows them that you care about them.
Step 5: Don't worry, laugh at yourself.
Don't feel embarrassed if you do something silly.It shows you are comfortable with your skin.A sense of humor makes someone happy.There is a time and place for humor.It's great for stress relief, but don't ruin a serious conversation with inappropriate jokes.
Step 6: Show enthusiasm.
Attack something with a smile on your face, an open mind, and a sense of humor even if it makes you uncomfortable.Being enthusiastic can help you accomplish anything.People will love being around you if you act this way.
Step 7: Laughing is a priority.
Laughing at yourself isn't enough to make you attractive.If you keep laughing higher up on your priority list, you will be a happier person.Daily jokes on your phone or email are a great way to remind you to laugh more.When you start to feel drained, set them for a time of day.
Step 8: You should have confidence in how you act and speak.
You should always say what you believe in, be willing to take risks, and have the ability to admit your mistake without being worried about what other people will think.You have self-confidence if you do this.This helps create an attractive personality because it shows that you're comfortable with yourself and that makes others comfortable around you.When it comes to confidence, asking questions is important.You'll be more comfortable talking about things if you know more.Don't be afraid to ask questions.You don't want to compare yourself with other people to get rid of self-doubt.
Step 9: You should have confidence in your body.
Dressing well and having good posture show confidence.To be confident in it, you don't have to have a perfect body.People will be attracted to you if you dress well, carry yourself well and respect yourself.Post-it's around your mirror remind you of the parts of your body that make you happy.Don't worry about the things that you're self-conscious about.
Step 10: There is a difference between confidence and cockiness.
cockiness is unappetizing.People won't like you if you're all about yourself.To remind yourself to compliment others is a great way to avoid this.Every day, find 5 people to compliment.They can be friends or strangers.This will help you stay grounded.