If you are genuinely interested in a person, flirting is fun and exciting.It can be hard to flirt with other girls because flirting can come off as a joke or friendly gesture.This is more than a problem with girl to girl flirting, it is a frustration that is common in many situations of flirting.To ease the process, get to know the girl, use friendly and flirtatious body language, and talk to her when you feel confident that she is comfortable with it.
Step 1: If you see her frequently, be friends with her.
Before you start flirting with her, get to know her and become friendly.If she's a girl you like at school, start talking to her in class and say hello in the halls.If that goes well, ask her to hang out.You should not be flirting with her if you don't like her.She can know what her romantic preferences are.
Step 2: Ask about her preferences.
If you don't know what her preference is, try to find out.If she is interested in another gender, you may not want to flirt with her.A friend of hers should tell her that a girl likes her and give her a reaction.If she doesn't answer your question, then you should ask her.If you ask her a personal question, you can learn her preferences on your own.Ask what her romantic preference is.Don't push the question if she does not want to answer.No matter what her answer is, respect what she says and don't push it.
Step 3: She is interested in a certain type of person.
It doesn't mean that she will be interested in you just because she might be.Ask her about her previous relationships.You can ask her what she looks for.She seems to like the type of person she sees.If she likes qualities that describe you, you can ask her what type of person she is interested in.If she is interested in people with red hair and green eyes, you should ask.Ask if she is interested in people that play soccer.Don't change yourself if she's not interested in you.She won't be interested in who you are if you're not her usual type.
Step 4: Tell her who you are.
It's important to be open with the person you're interested in.Let her know about your life growing up.If possible, include her in your interests if you can.Talk to her on a daily basis about what you are doing.One of the more interesting parts of your life is having her as a friend.If you're interested in film, take her to a movie with you.
Step 5: You should make eye contact.
The power of eye contact is underestimated.It is possible to use eye contact to flirt.Eye contact is a good way to show a person that you are paying attention to them.You can show your interest in her by letting her know that you are paying attention.Make eye contact with the girl if she is across the room.Look at her, catch her eye and then look away.If she isn't talking, look at the girl directly in the eye.
Step 6: Look at her.
Another gesture that can be used to flirt is smiling.She will be reassured that you like her if you smile at her.You can smile at her while you are talking with her.Give her a friendly smile if you catch her eye in the same room.
Step 7: Touch her arm or shoulder.
Touch her gently when you are next to each other.She can be touched on her arm, back or shoulder.If you touch her, keep it there for a few seconds.If she expresses that she doesn't like being touched, refrain from doing it.
Step 8: Hold her hand.
Hand holding is a simple gesture that never goes out of style.At any point in the relationship, you can hold hands.Wait until you are confident that she will enjoy holding hands with you, if the flirtation is very new.When you are walking together, hold her hand.When you are sitting next to her, hold her hand.It will be obvious if she wasn't sure that you were flirting.
Step 9: Give her a hug.
If she has stated that she likes you, then move on to physical affection.When you see her, give her a hug.When you sit next to her, put your arm around it.When she is upset, hug her when something good has happened to her.If she tells you that she doesn't like it, stop the physical contact.
Step 10: Affirm her.
It is possible to tell people what you like about them.This is often seen as friendly, but it will bring you closer to her.She has both physical and personality attributes.Tell her what you think about her.Let her know how much you enjoy her and how kind she is to everyone.Let her know when she does something good.Say something like "I'm not surprised you did so well because you are great, but I am still impressed and happy for you."You really know how to make me laugh if she is a funny person.If you compliment her enough, she may catch on if you haven't established your interest.
Step 11: Do her something.
Surprise her by doing something unexpected, or go out of your way to do a favor.If she asks you to help, Oblige.There are ways that you can make her life easier.When she is carrying a lot, carry something for her.Or, run an errand for her.Surprise her with flowers, chocolates, or a small gift.A small and thoughtful gift could be a drawing of yours, or a book by an author you think she would like.
Step 12: Let her know what you like.
If you make your flirting obvious, your romantic and sexual preferences will have to come up.Let her know that you are both lesbian and bisexual.You don't have to tell her you're interested in her in a casual conversation.You can let her know about your interests and preferences at the same time.You can tell her your preference by saying something like "I am especially interested in women like you."If she reacts negatively, it's not your fault.She should not be a person you want to flirt with if she makes you feel bad about your preference.
Step 13: Let her know what you want.
If that is what you feel more comfortable with, you can wait until you have had a chance to flirt with her.It is a good idea to let her know that you are interested sooner rather than later.She could be waiting for you to make the first move.If both you and her want to continue the friendship, accept her reaction and try to do so.Say "I like you more than a friend" and write her a note.
Step 14: Ask her to leave.
You can either take this step quickly or wait until you are sure she likes you.Ask her to visit the park with you if you want it to be casual.If you want to make her feel special, ask her to go out for dinner and a movie.Don't be afraid to tell her how you feel, bring flowers with you.You can always ask her out on dates when you are in a relationship.