How To Find a Girl Who Likes Crossdressers (for Young Men)
So you're a young male cross-dresser, and you find that you get pleasure out of being in a relationship with a girl, too?Some of the guide will work for rural guys too.
Step 1: Take a good long look in the mirror.
Do you look good?A good looking guy is more likely to get a girlfriend who enjoys seeing him cross-dressed.A skirt on a topless muscular guy can look very attractive to the right woman if you are a bit brawny.
Step 2: You have to work on your appearance.
Changing your look may be necessary in order to get a girl who likes cross-dressers.Most girls who like cross-dressers don't like breast forms or things that alter their shape, so it might be wise to avoid them when trying to get involved with a girl.As girls who like cross-dressers rarely like excessive hair, it's important that you don't be extremely hairy.At the very least, shave your arms, legs, and chest.Girls who like crossdressers prefer men with long hair, so growing your hair out is a good idea.It's a good idea to perfect your makeup skills and build a wardrobe that is hip and not too frumpy, unless you're going for gothic, and don't have a lot of prom dresses.If you can't get away with arching your eyebrows, just plucking the stray hairs will clean them up.Women associated with certain sub cultures are more likely to be interested in androgynous men.
Step 3: You should study the masters.
It's time to fine tune and have a look at the kind of girlie guys girls love.Try to figure out their appeal by pretending to be someone else.The members of the Band Placebo, David Bowie, Michael Monroe, Sean Brennan, and Johnny Depp are all androgynous.Tim Curry has the attitude down pat, but perhaps a little campier than most women.
Step 4: Get the attitude.
If you're not feminine, it helps.It's okay to be girlie, but don't get too carried away.Don't scream when you see a spider, buy the girl you are with a drink, and take small steps.Doing that makes you look like a drag queen, or just plain silly, not to mention acting like that is a kind of misogynist view of women.Don't just talk about purses and nail polish.Girls who like crossdressers are most likely to be attracted to smart, sensitive guys who share their interests.Learning to play an instrument can be a valuable skill since girls who like androgyny are often involved in the rock music scene.
Step 5: Don't be aissy.
A lot of girls into feminine guys are feminists because the word sissy suggests that femininity and weakness are similar.Prepare for a lot of disappointment if you are a forced feminizing fetishist.Girls into feminine guys don't like submissive men.Being an independent person and willing to play both submissive and dominant roles sexually is important.
Step 6: If you want to find your girl, go out and do it.
Once you've mastered your girl-winning look and attitude, go out to some clubs, live music venues, and other hangouts associated with either the goth or glam subcultures.If you feel confident, wear feminine clothing and makeup, and know that it's safe to do so, flirt with the ones who are, if you have common interests, then it won't work out.