Some of the best relationships begin as friends.If you want to make your relationship romantic, you need to know the girl you like the most.You can turn your crush into a close friend by spending time with her.She might start to see you as more than a friend.
Step 1: You should build up your self-confidence.
Talking to a girl you like can be frightening and requires a lot of bravery and belief in yourself.Before you talk to her, make a list of your best attributes.It can be hard to get a list started, so try asking yourself something like, "What would my best friend say about me?" Then, you can change "best friend" to other people, such as your mom, dad, siblings, boss, teacher, etc.You will discover that you have a lot to be confident about when you read over your list.You will feel more confident if you stand straight up.Your arms should not be crossed to signal that you are friendly.Try and look your best.You look good if you put on an outfit that makes you feel comfortable.
Step 2: The mirror is a good place to practice.
Practice what you want to say in front of the mirror if you are very nervous about talking to the girl you like.When speaking to her in real life, be careful not to practice too much or you may sound robotic.
Step 3: There is a way to run into her.
It's a good idea to run into the girl you like.If you go to the same school, you could hang out where she has lunch, or you can take your break when she does.Pick a place that is casual and comfortable for both of you.You wouldn't want to run into her outside of her house if you've never been there.It is a good time to talk.She would be rushing to leave if she waited for her class to let out and she was late for an after school activity.Try to find a time when she won't be surrounded by friends.If she is with a large group of people it can be hard to approach her.
Step 4: Start by saying something nice.
A genuine compliment comes from the easiest opening line.You should compliment the girl you like the most.A compliment can lead to a conversation.If the girl you like scored a goal at her last soccer game, you could congratulate her.You are a great soccer player.This compliment shows that you noticed her soccer skills, paid attention to the last game and are interested in learning more about her.A generic compliment like "You're pretty" can sound impersonal and insincere.
Step 5: Ask her if she can help.
Asking her for help is a great way to start a conversation.People like to share their knowledge.If you run into a girl you like at the library, you could ask her for a book recommendation.If you both enjoy reading, this could lead to a great discussion about your favorite books.
Step 6: Get to know her interests.
Find out what your crush likes or dislikes by doing a little detective work.You might find that you have interests in common.To learn more about her, you can talk to her friends.You can check out her social media pages to see what she likes to do.People love to talk about their interests.You can ask her about her interests once you find one.If she is interested in basketball, you can ask her how long she has been playing.The two of you will play basketball together.
Step 7: She's a part of something.
It is helpful to join an after school club, a team or a volunteer organization in order to spend more time with the girl you like.If you like volunteering at a retirement home on the weekends, you could also volunteer there.If she is part of the debate club at school, you could join and spend more time with her.
Step 8: Hang out with someone.
You need to spend time with the girl you like in real life, even if you're hiding behind a screen.When you have real world connections, your relationship will grow.Spending time with someone in person can help build your relationship and make it more intimate.
Step 9: Be who you are.
Don't try to be someone you are not.You don't want the girl you like to like you.If she is part of the school band but you don't play an instrument, you should not join the band just to spend time with her.You can support her by attending the band's concerts, but also find another activity or interest with her.You should keep up your own interests as well.Make time to do activities that you enjoy if you're spending time doing something that she likes.Having your own interests and hobbies is important for a healthy relationship.
Step 10: It is important to communicate often.
Communication is the key to a relationship.If you want to communicate, you should do it in person, over the phone or through social media.Don't use it too much with your communication.If the girl you like is cutting your conversations short or giving one word responses, then take a break from communicating.She might be busy or not.
Step 11: Pay attention.
Make sure you are paying attention to what she is saying.Keep comfortable eye contact and nod while she speaks.If you follow up with relevant questions, you will be paying attention to what she has to say.
Step 12: The important details should be remembered.
If she is sharing something with you, try to remember it.This shows her that you care about what she's saying.For example, if she says that her brother is a fan of basketball.You should remember her brother's name, he has a game this weekend.You can say something after the weekend.How did your weekend go?How did he do at his game?
Step 13: Make her happy.
People make girls laugh.Ensure you are both having a good time whenever you hang out by embracing your natural sense of humor.To make a girl laugh, you don't have to be a stand-up comedian.A silly pun one of your friends came up with can be shared with you.Don't force yourself to tell jokes if you are shy or not funny.While you learn what makes her laugh, focus on making the girl smile.You could either watch a comedy special or go to an improviser show.
Step 14: Drop hints that you like her more than a friend.
Drop small hints, like compliment or hanging out one on one, that show this girl you like her more than just a friend.If you notice she is wearing a new sweater, you could say, "That sweater looks great on you."This type of compliment is sincere, shows you notice small details and sounds romantic, which may help her to see you in a romantic way.You could ask her to hang out with you.You could suggest a study date by saying, "Do you want to go to a cafe and study for our Spanish test tonight?"The two of us.I will give you a cup of hot chocolate, a sign that you like her.It's important to make sure the gift is small and thoughtful.You should buy a gift that makes you think of her and shows you care.
Step 15: Look for signs that she likes you.
If the girl you like is also interested in you, she may start to hint that she wants to be more than friends.There are times when she is acting flirtatious, touching you or planning to spend time with you.She is dropping hints that she isn't interested.She might not be interested in anything more than friendship with you if she invites other people to hang out with her.Everyone has their own way of showing that they are interested.She doesn't mean that she does for sure because she is showing lots of signs.It doesn't mean she's not interested.
Step 16: Tell her how you feel.
It is important to be honest with the girl you are building up your friendship with.Tell her how you feel.You could ask her on a date if you think she's feeling the same way.You could say, "I have enjoyed all this time we've been together and I really like you."If you are inviting her on a romantic date, make it clear that you have feelings for her and not just hang out as friends.Give the girl time to answer.Accept how she feels regardless of her answer.