Asking someone out is a lot of work.You may have a natural fear of rejection even if you think the person likes you.Feelings for a friend can make your anxiety worse.It is possible to determine if someone likes you by listening to them and having open and honest conversations.
Step 1: Be confident.
When you're around that person, act like you normally would.Stand tall with your shoulders back.If you're nervous when you speak, use your normal tone of voice and breathe deeply.If you want to project confidence, put your hands in your pockets or hold something to keep them occupied.Make eye contact, smile, and speak slowly and clearly.It's a good idea to be confident that the person likes you.
Step 2: You can start a one-on-one conversation.
You can start a conversation by walking up to the person.A recent episode of a show you both like or how their day is going can be used to start a conversation.It will make you feel more comfortable when you ask them out.Take them to a place where there are no other people around.Say something like, "Hey, did you watch last night's episode of American Horror Story?"It was crazy.Say something like, "Hey, how's your day going so far?"
Step 3: Ask them if they want to leave.
Ask them if they'd like to go out on a date when there is a lull.There is no room for confusion when you ask them.Asking someone to be your girlfriend or boyfriend is asking them if they would rather be romantic with you.To get to this point, you need to go on a couple of dates.You can say, "Hey, do you want to go out on a date with me over the weekend?" to establish that you are interested in going out.If you've already gone on a date with the person and you want them to be your boyfriend or girlfriend, you can say something like, "I like when we hang out and go on dates."Do you want to be exclusive and not go out with anyone else?
Step 4: Be flexible and specific.
Instead of asking if they want to go on a date, get specific with what you're asking them.Say something like, "Would you like to go to the movies on Friday at 6?"They will either give you a yes or a no depending on how you feel about them.If they are busy or have plans, don't be upset.Give them another time and date that works for them.You can say "Oh, okay, well do you have free time next week?" if they already have plans for the day.Drop it and wait until they feel comfortable going out with you, if they say they don't have time.
Step 5: If they just want to be friends, don't be upset.
It's possible that the person you think likes you only like you as a friend and not in a romantic way.Don't ruin your relationship with the person if they tell you this.You should stay friends with them and respect how they feel.Instead of dwelling on the rejection or feeling down, move on and build a stronger friendship with the person.You can say something if they say no.I thought you liked me that way, but I'm fine with being friends.
Step 6: Ask if they like you.
Asking someone if they like you is the easiest way to find out.Evaluate the values of the person you choose.Give yourself time to get to know the person.If you enjoy each other's company and have the same opinion on issues, there is a good chance that they will like you.It's a good chance that they like you if the person talks about deeper and personal things than pleasantries."Hey, I really have a good time hanging out with you," you can say.Do you want to go on a date?I like spending time with you, and I noticed that we are similar in a lot of different ways.Do you feel the same way?
Step 7: They should watch their body language.
Someone's body language can tell you if they like you or not.If the person leans into you, keep an eye out for open body language.Another sign is eye contact or gazing in your direction.It's a good sign that they like being around you if they look comfortable, relaxed, and happy.It's another sign that they are into you if they touch you on the shoulder or arm.Take a look at how the person interacts with other people.Is this person flirtatious with others as well as you?This could be a sign that the person doesn't like you.
Step 8: The person wants to be with you a lot.
If the individual always wants to be around you or makes excuses to not be in your presence, there's a chance that they like you.Going out of their way to talk to you at lunch is a sign that they like you.
Step 9: Listen.
A person will usually give you a compliment when they like you.It's a sign that they like you.Consider how personal the person is to you and how close you are to them.They might like you if you try to get intimate details about your life or if they ask you how you feel emotionally.It's a good bet that they would be interested in spending time with you if they asked you what you were doing over the weekend.Take what they have to say and internalize it.Listen to them instead of thinking about your response.Pay attention to how well they listen to you.There is a chance that they're interested if they are quiet and attentive when you are talking.
Step 10: Have an honest conversation with them.
Don't be afraid of judgement or what the person will say if you speak your feelings to them.Getting your feelings out of your chest will make you feel better.Tell them that you're open to dating.Ask how they feel about you.You can say, "I noticed that you might like me in a deeper way because of the way you act around me."I would be open to dating you."We started off as friends, but the more we hang out, I'm developing feelings for you and would like to take you out on dates."Would you be open to that?
Step 11: Talk to a friend.
Try to get a confirmation from your friend that they like you.Explain that you're open to dating them, but not sure if they agree.They will tell you the truth if it's a good friend.Ask your friend if they would talk to the person you're interested in if you confirm that they like you.You can say, "I really like Greg but I'm not sure if he likes me the same way back."Do you have a clue?
Step 12: You can dance and do other intimate acts together.
Try to do activities where you are close to each other.You don't have to ask the person out if they feel comfortable.To match their energy, try to gauge how they are feeling.Don't do it if they seem embarrassed or uncomfortable.It's important to gauge your own comfort with these things first.It's not necessary for you to do something if you don't feel like it.Inseparable acts of non-sexual intimacy include hugging, holding hands, dancing, or even making something together.