- “How are you feeling about our sex life right now?”
- “How much pleasure do you get from our sex life?”
- “What do you like most about our sex life?”
- “Is there anything you've been afraid to share about your sexual desires? ...
- “I really love it when you ___ during sex.”
How do I get more intimate conversations?
- Go First. Share something personal, and this may inspire your partner to do the same, in an I'll-show-you-mine, you-show-me-yours situation. ...
- Drum Up Some Fantasy. ...
- Be Grateful. ...
- Invite Them In. ...
- Be A Comfort. ...
- Be Practical. ...
- Talk About Your Childhood. ...
- Discuss Self-Improvement.
Is it okay to talk sexually?
Talking about sex is a skill But communication is part of having good sex. The willingness to talk about the kind of sex we have or want to have is a key skill. ... By having these conversations, you and your partner's relationship can have emotional, psychological, and mental benefits.