You have been invited to a party that could challenge your sobriety, but you aren't drinking.You don't want to end up being bored because of your decision to remain sober, but you would like to have a great time and maybe make some new friends.It is possible to have a good time while not drinking.
Step 1: Do not try to draw attention to your problem.
It doesn't need to be a topic of discussion if you attend a party with alcohol.It can cause other party goers to conclude that you are judgemental about their alcohol use.It can come off as self-centered because people don't want to hear much about a person's health choices.It is always acceptable to choose not to drink.You don't have to justify yourself.People rarely care if you drink or not.Other party goers don't care what you are drinking at a party.
Step 2: People at the party are entertained by others.
You may be sober, but you can still have fun dancing around with a lamp on your head.You can talk to people who are drunk and have fun.Tease them about it as a friend.
Step 3: Take care of your friends and acquaintances.
Offer some value to the life of a partygoer.You might be able to give advice to someone who wants to open up to you.Someone might need a ride.You will find many opportunities to be helpful if you are sober.
Step 4: It's a good idea to make a party playlist.
Are there any silly or ridiculous songs that you don't like?It's your chance to control the stereo and dance on the dance floor.In order to not hogging the vibe, accept input from everyone.You might discover new music.
Step 5: People can serve drinks to others.
You can learn how to make a few basic cocktails if you already know how.This is an easy way to have a conversation and delight a few people.The host of the party may be grateful for your help.
Step 6: There is a video game that you can play.
Are you so obsessed with a game that you can't find anyone to play it with?You have the chance to challenge a partygoer to pick up a controller.It is possible to draw many onlookers to become involved in the game.
Step 7: Take pictures of the event.
Try to use your phone or DSLR to take pictures of great dancing jigs and other moments of enthusiasm.Wait until the subjects of your photos are sober to post these directly to social media.If they consent, you can post the photos.
Step 8: An exit strategy is needed.
You can have fun on your own terms, and don't fall into the trap of being influenced by your friends.They might have different ideas about how the night will end.If the party becomes too challenging, you must have the option of leaving.If others insist that you stay, you should prepare a good excuse to leave.You might have an early morning the next day.You can ask a friend to text you when they need to talk.Plan how you will get home from the party in advance so that you don't get stuck there.
Step 9: If you must have a drink, keep it in your hand.
Having something to sip on will keep you from drinking.It will allow them to open up to you if they feel self-conscious that they are too drunk.You don't want to be vulnerable to people who will offer you a drink.If you're trying to overcome an addiction, having your own drink to fall back on may reduce the likelihood that you pick up an alcoholic beverage.
Step 10: If you should go back out.
If you anticipate that the party can become too wild, there is no shame in not attending.You won't regret backing out of the party if you find an alternative that you enjoy.