It can be difficult to become good friends with a girl when you're a guy.How do you ask her to hang out, and what should you do and talk about?Befriending a girl doesn't have to be difficult.If you aren't trying to become more than friends, make sure you treat your friendship the same as your guys', and keep things platonic.
Step 1: Common interests can be found and do them together.
You can improve your relationship with the girl by sharing activities.When you have fun with a girl, she is more likely to remember it.It's important that you both share a common interest in order to become better friends.It is possible to avoid sending mixed signals by telling the girl how much the activity costs.You are setting the stage for a friendly hang-out by doing this.You can go to a restaurant to eat, travel to an amusement park, attend another friend's birthday party, go surfing, join an art class, or do anything else that you both like.If there isn't anything to do, hanging out inside and watching movies is always an option.
Step 2: Genuine and vulnerable conversations can be had.
If the topic of the conversation is something we hold dear, we bond over it.You will feel more connected if you have more conversations about each other's lives.Being vulnerable means listening to her fears and talking about them.If she comes to you with a problem, don't be critical of her.When a girl knows she messed up, she doesn't want to hear how she did it.Before giving advice, listen for the girl's perspective and see where she is coming from.Asking a girl for advice will make her more likely to seek you out for her own advice.
Step 3: She deserves a compliment in a non-sexual way.
It makes us feel good when we get a compliment.When you admire a girl, compliment her.If you're just friends with a girl, you shouldn't compliment her because it can make her feel uncomfortable.She gives you a lot of praise.It's best to not mention your looks if she never mentions your physical appearance.Don't say things like "you're so beautiful" on the surface level.Say: "You're so fun to be around!"You're good at what you do."You make me happy."
Step 4: Keep in touch with her
It can be harder to maintain a strong relationship with a girl as time goes on, so you might have to put in a more concerted effort to text or call her.If you still live close to each other, make sure you keep an eye on her.Remembering a friend's birthday is a great reason to reach out to her.Stay active with your friend on social media if she moves.Go to her if your friend is busy.If you have more time, make it convenient for her.She will appreciate it in the future.
Step 5: If she invites you to something, go with her.
Girls will invite you to future events if you accept social invitations more often.If the girl is attending an event she doesn't want to go to, and needs a friend to support her, this is important.If you can't attend, make sure to let your friend know so she can find someone else to go with.Don't go if you do not want to.Negative energy will make interactions between you and her worse.
Step 6: She needs emotional support.
Most people need friends to act as emotional support during rough times when they go through different ups and downs.Knowing when to back off and allow someone to grieve is part of being a good friend.Make sure you don't be domineering.Before a performance or sporting event, emotional support is needed.
Step 7: Don't be sexual or romantic unless she wants.
It is easy to destroy a friendship with the opposite sex if it is sexual or romantic.It makes the girl feel uncomfortable, and it might make her sad because she cares about you as a friend, but not in a romantic way.When both people want it, a friendship can blossom into a romantic relationship.You should tell your friend if you have feelings for her.It may hurt your friendship in the long run.If your friend wants to be romantic with you, go for it.Friends are the building blocks of the best relationships.
Step 8: Girls go to social gatherings.
You want to be friends with girls at social gatherings.You should be on the lookout for popular events in your city or town.If you can, join a sports club or take a community art class.Meeting new people is easy if you put yourself in a situation that allows you to be around them.If you can, try to get creative.You can meet girls at a grocery store, your place of worship, or a shopping mall.You can meet new girls in school.Before or after the class starts, go up to her.
Step 9: If you want to be friends with girls, introduce yourself.
Ask the girl what her name is.Start small-talk by talking about where you are and what you're doing.The only way to feel less nervous about approaching new people is to just do it.She might not want to talk to you.Asking good questions include, "this place is really fun, do you like it?" or "that lecture was really boring, what did you think of the class?"It's better to talk to the girl as if you were talking to a male friend.
Step 10: Discuss what you share in common with each other.
If you are both at the same social gathering, there's a good chance that the girl you want to be friends with shares something in common with you.If you meet girls at a sports club, you'll most likely share an interest in sports, as will you if you attend an art class.Try to find a common bond with something you know and like to talk about.When you are talking to a girl, try to be funny.She will want to be your friend if you can make her laugh.Let her talk and be a good listener.She will open up and feel comfortable if you ask more questions.You should be saying your opinion, but you should also be listening.
Step 11: Get her contact info.
You should get the girl's cell-phone number when you feel like you've had a good conversation.If the conversation went well, ask her for it.Ask her if she wants to talk again, and tell her that you had fun talking to her.Get her information if she does.There's a good chance she won't give you her number if the conversation went poorly.If you don't know when you're leaving, you can ask before the conversation ends.
Step 12: You can text her to stay in touch.
Ask her if she wants to meet up with you, if you can both do it.This could be rock climbing, going to see a band, or lunch.Try to remember what you've talked about before, and choose something that interests you both.If you flirt in your texts or hang out romantically, you might send the wrong signals.You can tell her that you don't want to date right now.Don't text her a lot if she's not responding.She might be busy or not want to talk.You don't want her to think you're desperate for friends or that you make her angry.Texting is a good way to share funny or interesting images.Be nice in your texts.You don't want to be sarcastic since she may take it as a joke.You should text back if the girl is texting you a lot.To find out how much she likes texting, try to match her energy.