Some people believe that the type of people you are attracted to can be influenced by your astrological sign.There isn't any evidence that astrological signs impact personality, but you can try to look to the stars for guidance.If the man in question displays typical traits of a Virgo, such as intensity, passion, and intellectualism, then this will work best.There is a need to cultivate a more intelligent personality.Dressing conservatively and avoiding displays of emotion makes a good first impression.You have to be patient in the relationship.A man with a discriminating taste may take a while to commit.
Step 1: If he has the personality of a Virgo, you should figure that out.
Don't assume that your man has all the qualities of a Virgo just because he was born in August and September.It can be fun to take someone's sign into account, but don't trust astrology over what you can learn from your own eyes and ears.You can get to know a man's personality by observing and talking to him, and see if it meshes with what you are looking for in a partner.It's important that you don't have to change yourself or pretend to be something you're not in order to get a Virgo.Evaluate whether or not this person's values align with yours.You could make a game of this with your man.Say something like, "I think astrology is fun, and I noticed you are a Virgo."They're supposed to be intellectual, conservative, and hard-working.Do you think any of those apply to you?
Step 2: If he's interested in current affairs you should notice.
People who can carry on an intellectual discussion are thought to be preferred by the Virgos.If this sounds like you, you might want to read up on what's happening in the world and talk about it.You should read the news regularly.The New York Times has apps on your phone that will send you regular updates about recent news stories.You can watch the news.CNN is in the background while you cook dinner or listen to a radio show about current events.
Step 3: Let him see your funny side.
A man who is considered serious by nature may be drawn to someone who can get him out of his head.He will respond to your sense of humor.To lighten the mood, you should be able to introduce a joke.As you get to know your man's sense of humor, start with jokes that aren't too raunchy.If raunchy is your sense of humor, you don't have to change it for him, but it's best to feel things out a little before launching into a naughty limerick or off-color jokes.Start with observational jokes.You can make jokes about the weather or make cute puns.
Step 4: Good manners can be paid attention to.
Being respectful to others is important to a Virgo.Good manners go a long way in attracting a Virgo man if you notice that he is somewhat conservative.As a child, your parents taught you manners."Thank you," "excuse me," and "please" are some of the terms used.It's important to be courteous to the wait staff at a restaurant.When frustrated by the bill or food, do not yell or snap.Think about if this is a partnership you really want, if you are a more boisterous, loud personality, and this seems to offend your conservative partner.If the guy doesn't like being with someone who is a little more demure or quiet, he's probably not the one for you.Your rambunctious personality may help him loosen up a bit.Being respectful of others is the most important thing.
Step 5: Discuss your work ethic
If you notice, your Virgo works hard.Someone with this personality may be turned off by people.It may be a good match if you both work hard.If you have a job, try to be the best employee you can be.Pay attention to small details, be on time every day, and use downtime to learn more about your company.If you're trying to get a hard worker in your office, this can be helpful.Work hard in other areas.Take care of your home and engage in hobbies.
Step 6: Plan dates are related to intellectual activities.
Going to a museum or seeing a play is an ideal date for a Virgo man.Anything that could lead to an interesting discussion is a great first date for a Virgo.Make sure it's something you're interested in.You can find the cultural enclaves of your location.Do you know any museums or planetariums?Is there a theater troupe in the area?Cater to your own preferences.Take him to an art museum if he loves art.You can see a documentary about evolution if he's interested in science.
Step 7: It should be somewhat coy.
The typical Virgo is slow to show emotion.If you're a naturally emotional, affectionate person, don't feel pressured to behave in a certain way if your guy has this trait.Do what feels natural, and watch the guy.You may want to dial things back until you get to know each other better, if he's uncomfortable with your level of emotion.A Virgo man will enjoy displays of affection, but you have to win him over first.Obey his boundaries.You can slow your pace to match the guy who likes to take it slow.Asking him "Is this okay?" is important to watch his body language.Take it slow because some people take longer to decide if they want to be physical or not.During communication, play it cool.Don't be too excited if you return texts and phone calls, but make sure he knows you're interested.Go for a reply like, "Thank you for inviting me out."I am looking forward to it."I can't wait to see you!" is a more enthusiastic response.It's possible that a Virgo man may be put off.
Step 8: You need to be neat when you're together.
Men with the same name tend to be on the side of being perfect, and may be turned off by messy partners.If you are a neat and tidy person who pays attention to the details, then you and this Virgo may be well-matched; however, if organization and tidiness is not your style, he may not be the one for you.Make sure your clothes are clean.Don't wear anything with stains or holes.Make sure to run a lint roller over your clothes if you have cats or dogs.It's important to remove loose hairs.When out to eat, eat slowly and avoid spilling your food.You should keep your napkin on your lap.Keep your place clean if you have a man over.A Virgo may be turned off by a dirty floor or a sink full of dirty dishes.
Step 9: Discuss what your values are.
You shouldn't make assumptions about what is important to him or what his values are, even if you agree with the description of his sign.Take the time to find out what is important to your man in a relationship and decide if they fit with what you care about.You may disagree on major points, such as having children or having different communication styles.Tell both of you what you want from a relationship.It would be a mistake to assume that he wants a lot of alone time because he is an intense Virgo.Do you need a lot of'me' time?Will you let me know when you need some space?He prefers to be around people most of the time.
Step 10: You should have patience.
It can take a man a long time to make a decision about a partner.If you're looking for a quickie romance, you might not get it from a man with the same name.Try to be patient with the relationship because it may take him awhile to commit.Do not try to get your man to commit early on.Don't get impatient.The wait can be frustrating, but remember that Virgo men are kind, loving, and loyal.If you allow a Virgo man to come to you, you will have a very kind and caring partner.
Step 11: Allow him to work on himself.
It's important for you both to be good at doing things on your own, and have a little "me" time, if your Virgo is passionate about his hobbies or work.A man with the same name is sure to put his all into any endeavor.A man is very dedicated to work.Allow him to do his job.If your man has hobbies, you should expect him to take them seriously.Try to support him.It's possible that your man is on a sports team.Go to his games and cheer for him.It's nice to show your support even if sports aren't your thing.
Step 12: Be kind and loyal.
If your man is a typical Virgo, he will be very dedicated to his partner and expect a lot in return.Men with the same name have little patience for unnecessary drama.Don't bait your man into arguments and be loyal to him.Try to avoid arguments, because you should never put aside your feelings.If your man upsets you, approach him calmly.Say something like, "Could I talk to you about something that bothered me?"I want to make sure it doesn't affect our relationship.
Step 13: Accept his energy.
A man with the same name can be intense.This is his nature and it is not likely to change.A man with the same name tends to take everything seriously.He will be intense about his commitment once he's ready.You will have a loving and loyal partner, but he will also be intense about work, school, and hobbies.You have to accept this in order to be with a Virgo.Allow your man time to pursue his interests.Try to accept the fact that he may get very serious about matters that seem silly to you.It is in his nature.Take the time to pursue your own interests if you don't like the same things.His intensity will benefit you.A longterm commitment is what you want a partner who is intense about you.