You don't have to care if they know a lot about you if you're open to everyone.Playing it mysterious may be a better way to get someone's attention.If you want to leave people wondering, what is it about her?Don't forget to read on.
Step 1: There is a possibility that this is not the case.
Have you ever met someone that was different from you?So different is the way they see the world?The difference between the two of you is what makes these people mysterious.You have to be different from everyone.By being yourself.It's seriously.Think about it.The element of mystery comes from the way each person views and interacts in the world.The man knows that he will never be a part of the woman's world.Your unique world is the same regardless of gender or relationship.
Step 2: There is a possibility that this is not the case.
You have to be confident in order to really be yourself in today's world, which is plastered with images from the media about the necessity to blend in and succumb to fleeting trends.When the world says "sink or swim"?It's the only way to swim.People love confident people.We don't realize why they are persuasive, attractive, and admirable.There is no mystery about having low self-worth.All of your actions are dictated by whether or not people will accept you.It's easy to see through and figure it out.The confident person, the one who's comfortable in their skin, asserting themselves, standing up for what they believe in, is the person people look at and say, "What is it about them?"
Step 3: There is a possibility that this is not the case.
People who wear their emotions on their sleeves are calm.You know what makes them happy after a few days.No one will know what gets you going if you're calm all the time.They will try even harder to find it.In dire situations, be the one who is lighthearted.If you have to show emotion, show ones that don't correlate with the situation.It's cold outside but not snowing.Mother nature, what the hell?What kind of game is she playing?This winter isn't worth it.You're moving to a new place.
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It's important to be polite since being mysterious is often seen as a negative.Being mysterious doesn't mean being rude or unresponsive.Don't confuse the two.Everyone deserves to be treated well, no matter how you come off.It's a good idea to have a smile on your face all the time.People will be left wondering, "What's really going on in her head?" when you look friendlier and more personable.If you've ever seen someone smiling or laughing on the street, you know this feeling.
Step 5: Don't be afraid to be silly.
As we get older, we begin to understand what society expects from us and how we should act in public.You could put a chicken wing in your mouth, chew it up, and then spit it out, but you don't.You don't have to take that example to heart, but think about the impulses you have that are not terrible.Sometimes you just want to say, "I could tell you, but then I'd have to kill you" when a waiter comes up to your table.Completely blank.That's okay.It will get people wondering what the heck is going on in that brain of yours, while it's not the most sophisticated of tactics.It can be enjoyable.Next time you order a salad, say "I have a shellfish allergy."Tell them you'll work through it when they ask why you ordered it.
Step 6: Don't go into detail.
We know what people are expecting when they ask us questions.When someone asks if you're in a relationship.It really means, "Are you in a relationship?"What kind and with whom?Instead of saying "Yes, I have a boyfriend," I should have said "George."George Glass.Just say yes.They won't know if they can get any more.Don't get into the story if you try to summarize it as accurately as possible.Stick to what actually happened.Your boyfriend might ask you about your ex.Instead of talking about why it didn't work out, tell them that we did not mesh.I stopped thinking about it when the relationship ended.Simple.To the point and honest.
Step 7: Be unreadable.
Most of the time, our interactions with other people are not verbal.We have dozens of "tells" going on at any one time indicating to others how we feel.Take advantage of the patterns people are using.James Bond gets serious when he's telling a joke.Kind of like that.He's not the only one who is stoic when he hits on a woman.There is one mysterious guy.When interacting with a person, think about your body positioning.Try to change it around and see how the other person reacts.Play with your voice.You have eye contact.Leave them wondering how you were feeling.
Step 8: The focus should be on the other person.
This one is very easy.All you have to do is get into a conversation with a person and ask them questions.They won't know anything about you after it's over and you'll be left thinking how great of a conversationist you were.People love talking about themselves so take advantage of it.Ask questions that are open ended.If you see a spark in them, jump on it.Get them talking about it.Act like you want to keep them going.Even though you're barely doing anything, you will be fun to be around because you seem nice.See?It's easy.
Step 9: Talk about the facts.
Talk about other things when the conversation rolls around.Don't say anything in your opinions, beliefs, or experiences.It is possible to add value to any conversation without giving away anything about yourself.Instead of saying, "Oh my gosh, I read this thing on the Internet the other day while I was killing time before drinks with Sally about how drinking one more liter of water a day can lead to noticeable weight loss long-term and I'm definitely gonna try it," I willWorking out isn't enough.Some research says that you can lose weight if you increase your water intake.Definitely a viable tactic.You're getting the same point across.
Step 10: You should be mysteriously absent.
You have to go to the party when you are invited.You can be mysteriously absent once you've got your foot in the door.Don't show up.People will wonder where you are.Come late.Leave early with no explanation.Get them thinking.Don't do this too much.It will become a quirk of yours if you get up and leave from a party all the time.You will stop being invited if you don't show up in the first place.Pick your battles.
Step 11: It's a good idea to keep your past a secret.
If you want to keep the intrigue up, don't talk about your past.You can get away with a lot.Say something like, "It doesn't matter where you moved from, only your current location."You know.Don't give any details and say "Utah" in a simple way.That could cause fewer weird looks.If you keep your past a secret, make a game out of it.Tell your friends and family about how you lived in Vietnam and worked on a ferret farm.Tell me about your time as a chef at a fine restaurant.You can insert the story of the year you spent hanging out with Charlie Sheen into a random conversation.Wouldn't it be great to get a kick out of the image you're cultivating?
Step 12: Have a good posture.
You don't want a slouch because it will show low self esteem and make you seem shy.Keeping your stomach in a straight line is the perfect posture.Do exercises to improve your posture.Having a perfect posture makes you seem attractive and confident, which will get you positive attention from both men and women, giving you more people to talk to.
Step 13: You can develop your own sense of style.
Unfortunately, clothing trends make us easy to peg -- or at least give people the impression that we're peg-able.Are you wearing a scarf and glasses?You're a person who likes to think outside the box.Are you wearing a top that shows off your chest?Doesn't need to be said.Are your shoes untied and your pants down?Sheesh.If you want to make your own, make it.Go for it if you like it.You can rock different styles at different times.You wear the black rimmed glasses one day and the North Face the next.It's a top you made yourself.It's all three at the same time.Whatever floats your boat.
Step 14: Pick hobbies that aren't compatible.
If you were shown a typical high school football player, you would think, "Okay, he's athletic, takes classes like woodshop, likes partying on the weekends and has a girlfriend."If you were shown a typical high school band member, you would think they were a little shy.It was smart.Probably has a few friends.It's close to family.It's nice in general.Maybe plays too many video games.Don't mix the two even though they are stereotypes and not at all correct.The girl in the short skirt and lipstick is carrying around The Divine Comedy.On weekends, the soccer field is lit up by the saxophone player.Do it all.It will be harder for you to be put into a box if you are more dynamic.You're no longer mysterious after people boxed you in.Do something that you wouldn't normally do.You may find something you enjoy that you didn't think you'd enjoy.
Step 15: Emotions should be kept to a minimum.
People will do it when they can easily get a rise out of you.They feel like they get you when they know what makes you excited.Don't wear your emotions on your sleeve.People will never know what the truth is if they can't feel how you feel.They won't know what you like or dislike when you come up.People can't keep their mouths closed.Keeping the volume to a minimum is a good idea.Have you ever noticed how loud people are?No one has ever said, "Americans, now that's one mysterious bunch!"You can whisper to the person next to you with that blank face.Everyone will think you're talking about them.Win.We play games.
Step 16: Stay away.
Do you know the people who update their Facebook profiles every six seconds with the thought of "I just forgot to eat dinner?"Don't be that person.The person is ruining Facebook for everyone else.Vaguebook trying to express your delicate, flowery emotions, and don't post pictures of everything that's about to go into your mouth.If you have something to say online, make it worth it.We don't need to know what we're doing at any given time.The less we know, the better.If you want to be mysterious, leave people wondering who you are and what you're doing.Don't check into Starbucks every morning.Don't use "dear so-and-so" statuses.Don't put a # after everything you say.Social networking is useful, but don't let the world in on everything you do.
Step 17: Take it to the max.
If you really want to be mysterious, there are a lot of ideas that you could take advantage of.You could wear sunglasses and do silly things.It's possible to make your room Gothic and princess-themed.You could say something like, "I went to the "post office" today."You could wear a cape.How far are you willing to go?Do you want to have fun with it?Pretend you're not.When you attend a party, you will give people a fake name and ask them if the mob has been here recently.Being yourself isn't the same as being yourself, but it can be quite entertaining.